
Last night I joined Robert at East Aurora High School where we sat in on a meeting of Clayton Muhammad’s Boys II Men Fraternity and then worked with them to put Oberweis Family Foundation stickers on the 1001 “From the Barrio to the Board Room” books that were generously donated to the school. Spending time with those young men and watching Clayton Muhammad, their leader, interact with them with such a powerful combination of respect, discipline, humor and honor, was a truly humbling experience. Robert and I were a couple of flies on the wall for the majority of the meeting as they discussed recent goings on in the boys lives and some events they had attended. They discussed the impact of new experiences and watched a photo montage of where they had been over the previous two weeks since their last meeting. Near the end of the meeting, Clayton asked Robert and I to each say a few words and then the boys engaged us in some questions about the book and about Robert. Watching them listen to Robert with deep respect and sincere interest was inspiring. They could relate to him, to his struggle, to his desire to chase that American Dream. I met Darrius (the bright eyed basketball fanatic and his quiet friend David who joined the group for his first meeting); Mr. Meeks the young eight grader with the bright smile, Tommie (who wants to write his own story); Richard who is in College now and going to have an obvious impact on the students he teaches (following in the footsteps of Mr. Muhammad!); Joshua who has been writing poetry since losing his mother; Pedro the designer (who better reach out and contact me like I told him to!); George the quiet; Giberto (one of the co-presidents) who is always first to speak and be vulnerable, a powerful attribute; and Roberto who recently returned from a Princeton summer program and showed up near the end, dedicated to hustling over to the meeting after work. These are men who are already making a difference in their communities one day and one life at a time. Clayton asked them to name their “From the”, “to the” in life, and here were some of my favorite responses:
From Mediocrity to Superiority
From Little Boy to Phenomenal Man
From A Minority to a Priority
From the bland taste of Kool Aid to the Exquisite Taste of Champagne
From Dark to Light
Thank you Mr. Clayton Muhammad and Boys II Men for inviting me into your world. I promise I’ll be back to learn from you again.
Corey Blake (from loneliness to feeling part of a family)

Richard and some of the other men placing Oberweis Family Foundation Stickers on the books

Pedro Gonzalez Checking out the book…

It’s so powerful to see their faces as they identify with the book…